Is porn taking more than you meant to give?
Six honest questions, two minutes. No score, no one watching — a clearer answer than another year of wondering.
Take the reflection →
Resources — free, no app, no account
Start where you are.
Three short self-reflections, three honest articles, and a shelf of books. All of it free. None of it needs the app, and none of it asks who you are.
Take a look at where you are.
Three ways in, depending on how long you have and how close you want to look. Everything you type stays in your browser.
Does it have more hold than you’d want?
The ten questions a counselor would ask, in plain words. None of them ask how often, and there’s no label at the end.
Answer the ten questions →Where does a slip actually start?
The recovery world’s three circles — what you’re done with, what leads there, and the life you’re building. Map yours, print it.
Map your three circles →The longer answers.
Written by Luke, who picked this up at ten years old and put it down at thirty-eight. His story is here.
Why can’t I stop watching porn?
Because it works — it is a fast, reliable way to not feel something, and nothing has been given that job yet. The mechanism underneath, and why willpower keeps losing to it.
How to stop watching porn
The five things that actually helped, roughly in the order they mattered. Written by a man who tried harder for the better part of three decades before any of it worked.
The best porn blockers and recovery apps, honestly
Covenant Eyes, QUITTR, Fortify, Canopy and the rest — what each does well, and where each is the wrong choice. Including where Bramble is. No affiliate links.
The books that did the work.
The recovery library
The Bible first, then sixteen books on five shelves, and the first shelf is the four that mattered most. Luke read every one of them on the way through, and none of them are optional reading dressed up as a list. Direct links to the author or publisher, and to the audiobook where one exists. No affiliate links.
- Start here
- The foundation
- Sorting yourself out
- Working recovery
- After betrayal
Walk this with us.
Everything above is yours whether or not you ever install anything. When you want the protections and the Circle alongside it, Bramble is in early beta and free.
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